Marriage Is a Team Sport
Approach disagreements with your partner not as a “me,” but as a “we.”
By Arthur C. Brooks for The Atlantic
If your relationship is a little too competitive and not collaborative enough, there are a few effective steps to consider.
1. More we, less me.
2. Put your money on your team.
3. Treat your fights like exercise.
Collaboration requires people to choose to work together, not to cease being individuals. There is no “us” when one or both lose the self.
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