You Can't Do Everything for Everyone

You Can't Do Everything for Everyone for HuffPost
By Melissa Heisler

Many of the individuals I coach are humanitarians. They live to give. They give to their family, their children, their jobs, and usually they also have a deep desire to give to humanity and the world overall. Sometimes they give too much, putting a social agenda above their own needs, resulting in burnout. Sometimes they feel unfulfilled or a failure if they are not doing "big enough" work, if they are not helping to make large societal changes, if they are not changing the lives of millions. When I saw this TED talk, I found hope for all of my givers. We all do not have the means of Bill and Melinda Gates to do large scale programs. We all do not have the celebrity of Geena Davis to use for gender equality awareness. We all do not have the world platform of Pope Francis to call for the end of poverty. But each of us, each and every day, are able to effect the world around us.

Giving money and time to volunteer organizations is noble, needed, and fulfilling. But we don't have to give up our lives to give to others. Every day is a chance to give to others by just being ourselves. We can smile in a grocery line. We can help our elderly neighbor bring in the groceries. We can take a friend to the doctor. We can talk to a graduate about landing their first job. None of these activities would take a lot of time or necessarily take us out of our routine. We don't need to start a non-profit in order to contribute. Just being aware during the day will show opportunities for helping those around us. And our little effort can have a big impact in the long run.

"If you wait until you can do everything for everybody, instead of something for somebody, you'll end up not doing nothing for nobody." -- Malcom Bane

What can you do today in your daily routine to give a little to those around you?

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